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The next generation of the Pagan Network of Wisconsin.

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Or you can send mail to Majordomo@paganpaths.org with the following command in the body of your email message:

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or from another account, besides anaccount@example.org:

unsubscribe wi-pagan anaccount@example.org

Unsubscribe Main, Resubscribe Digest:

If you want to switch your subscription from the Main list to the digest version, you can do it with one email. Send the message to Majordomo@paganpaths.org and put these lines in the message body:

unsubscribe wi-pagan anaccount@example.org
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If you ever need to get in contact with the owner of the list, (if you have trouble unsubscribing, or have questions about the list itself) send email to owner-wi-pagan@paganpaths.org.
This is the general rule for most mailing lists when you need to contact a human.

You have joined a place, a reality that we create together, shaped by friends of many beliefs. A few of us have lived here recently or are planning on moving to Wisconsin, but by and large, everyone on this list lives within the borders of the state of Wisconsin. And we're all very happy to have one more. We bid you welcome.

Through our interactions and connections we create community. Our membership spans a wide range of age and experience (both in belief systems and all things web and Internet). Teens, elders, covensteads, solitaries, students, women, men, families; whatever our gods or goddesses, here all have a place to speak and listen without fear.
Diversity is both a strength and a challenge. As of May 18th, 1999, our membership numbers about 130 souls. With that many people, and the aforementioned differences in ages and experience, a few practices and unwritten rules have evolved which make things easier for all of us. We now proceed to make them written guidelines instead of unwritten rules.


WI-Pagan Mailing List Guidelines

Revised March 19, 2001

CONTACT INFO

The WI-Pagan list comes in two versions: the regular version where each post is sent as an individual message, and the digest version where posts are bundled together and sent as one long message.

* To post messages to the list, send to: wi-pagan@paganpaths.org

* To subscribe to the regular version Put the following command in the body of your email: subscribe wi-pagan

And send your email to: wi-pagan-request@paganpaths.org

* To unsubscribe from the regular version Put the following command in the body of your email: unsubscribe wi-pagan

And send your email to: wi-pagan-request@paganpaths.org

*To subscribe or unsubscribe from an account that is not the account that you want to subscribe or unsubscribe from Follow the above directions but after the name of the list put the the actual address that you have been using or will be using for the list.

unsubscribe wi-pagan account@example.org

* To subscribe to the digest version of the list, Put the following command in the body of your email: subscribe wi-pagan-digest

and send your message to: wi-pagan-digest-request@paganpaths.org

* To unsubscribe from the digest version of the list, Put the following command in the body of your email: unsubscribe wi-pagan-digest

and send your message to: wi-pagan-digest-request@paganpaths.org

* If you ever need to get in contact with the managers of the list (if you have trouble unsubscribing, or have questions about the list itself), send email to: owner-wi-pagan@paganpaths.org.

This is the general rule for most mailing lists when you need to contact a human.

* The Official WIP Website is at http://www.spiritpathways.com/wiplist.html

INTRODUCTION

One thing to remember above all: YOU ARE PROBABLY GOING TO MEET MANY OF THESE LIST MEMBERS, FACE TO FACE, SOMETIME, SOMEWHERE. These are not faceless people in some unknown part of the world. They are separated from you by a few hundred miles at most, perhaps even across town. The relationship you create with them here will affect your relationship with them when you bump into each other at the next gathering you attend. Please try to keep this in mind when you're having a bad day, and when you read a post that could have been sent by someone else who's having an even worse day. The Universe has an odd sense of humor sometimes.

You have joined a place, a reality that we create together, shaped by friends of many beliefs. A few of us have lived here recently or are planning on moving to Wisconsin, but by and large, everyone on this list lives within the borders of the state of Wisconsin. And we're all very happy to have one more. We bid you welcome.

Through our interactions and connections we create community. Our membership spans a wide range of age and experience (both in belief systems and all things web and Internet). Teens, elders, covensteads, solitaries, students, women, men, families; whatever our gods or goddesses, here all have a place to speak and listen without fear. Diversity is both a strength and a challenge. As of March 4th, 2001, our membership numbers about 165 souls. With that many people, and the aforementioned differences in ages and experience, a few guidelines have evolved which make things easier for all of us.

The following are the official rules of this email list. They are intended to allow the maximum amount of freedom to the list members, while still protecting their privacy and minimizing extremely rude behavior.

When someone violates a rule that person will be sent an off list warning stating which rule was violated. If the person continues to break the rule a public warning will be issued. If the person continues to violate the list rules they will be suspended for 1 week. This means they will not be allowed to post to the list for that amount of time but will continue to receive the list. If they break the rule again they will be suspended for 1 month. Continued rule breaking after being suspended will probably lead to expulsion from the list. This will be considered on a case by case basis.

If you object to any of these rules, feel free to notify the list managers of your disapproval (contact information is given above), but unless it's found that a large majority of other list members disagree with the rules as well, they're unlikely to be changed.

RULES

1. Do not flame other list members (flaming is the act of posting excessively rude and insulting messages).

Diversity in opinion and ideas is encouraged so when you disagree with someone don't use name calling, intimidation, implied aggression or threats. Disagreement with an idea someone has posted is acceptable; name-calling or insults as part of your disagreement is not. If you have to explain a remark with "it's a joke", perhaps it could have been written a little more clearly.

If something makes you angry, THINK about what you're saying before you post your message. Read it carefully to make sure you're saying exactly what you want to say. Then LEAVE IT for a few hours and read it again. Others may not have the background in this subject that you do, and still others will barely raise an eyebrow over what you consider a grievous offense. This is in the nature of two-leggeds.

Realize that the angry, righteous message you are sending to an adult who should know better might *actually* be going to a shy 16 year old, reading her post and blinking back tears, thinking that it wasn't what she was trying to say at all and who is already working on an apology. Due to time lags caused by various Internet vagaries, the apology may have already been sent. Your public message could be thing that drives her off the list - hurt, shamed, angry and alone, despite all efforts to smooth things over. This has already happened to us. Is that the effect you want? More to the point: Is that the reality you want to help create?

Remember that what you send out returns to you, some believe three times over. On a practical level, anger tends to get anger in return. On a spiritual level, words are powerful magick and should be invoked carefully and with all due respect.

2. Do not forward list messages to people who aren't on the list or private messages to the list without permission from the author of the message.

This is technically a legal matter. International and US law states that private email is automatically copyrighted by the author. It is also social, in that most people expect their private email to stay private, no matter what they say. If you receive an email you want to talk about (If someone on this list sends you a hateful email privately, we'd certainly like to know about it!), there are established conventions.

It is permissible to: Post a message saying that you have received it, PARAPHRASE (put into your own words) what was said, and offer to send it privately to an individual if requested. It is legal and acceptable to send private email, privately, to specific people. (That is also something to remember when you send private email. It is difficult to say "I didn't say that!" when the message is right there, verbatim.)

3. Do not send "chain-letters" (Anything that says you MUST pass it on or specifies "penalties" if you do not, counts).

4. Do not send petitions with signatures.

Most of these have been circulating the 'net for a long time and are no longer valid. They also don't do much good because there is no way to verify the signatures so political figures and organizations just trash them. If you are really interested in helping out, then take a little time to do a web search for organizational sites that are working on the particular cause and just post the URL with a brief message explaining what it is.

5. Do not deliberately send any emails with attached files (pictures, sounds, programs, etc) to the list.

If you want to make files available to the list members, uploading them to a web page and posting the URL is recommended. If you don't have a web page, send the file to the list managers and ask them to make it available.

6. Don't post rumors about illegal behavior. It can land you in court.

NEVER post a message that accuses a person or group of illegal activity, whether they are substantiated or not. If you are worried about someone, seek help from law enforcement officials, social agencies, and/or privately email specific list members, asking where to go and what to do.

If you post a message that names someone specifically, and you even IMPLY that they MIGHT be doing something illegal, that person (or even someone who happens to have the same name) has enough legal ammunition to sue you, perhaps shut down this mailing list, and generally cause a great deal of harm. Even if your email doesn't mention your real name, when the law is involved (if you have not taken several complicated steps to cover your tracks - in other words, if you haven't behaved like an experienced internet criminal) you can always be tracked down. If you must post a message to the list, DO NOT NAME NAMES! Ask us for private help, and we will respond.

If you see a message that fits this description on the list, DO NOT FORWARD IT TO ANYONE! If you quote it, LEAVE OUT THE NAMES! Quoting a message is exactly the same as posting the original.

If you feel you must check out the story, remember two things:

CUSTOMS

Like every group, this list has a variety of social customs, or "unwritten rules" as they're sometimes called. While they are not enforced in the same way that rules are, it's best for new subscribers to be aware of these to avoid unintentionally offending anyone (or everyone). If you don't choose to abide by many of these customs you won't be warned and kicked off. But should you irritate enough people because of it and they complain about your behavior then the list managers will have to consider whether it is disruptive enough to the list for action to be taken. If you are new to email lists you might want to read "A Beginner's Guide to Effective Email" <http://www.webfoot.com/advice/email.top.html>

FINAL NOTES

We're here to have fun, meet like-minded people, and hopefully learn something along the way; please try not to assume the worst of people or take anything too personally. Remember that we only have text to go on here, and we often accidentally read intention into people's words that wasn't there. People often have differing opinions, and as long as they don't try to tell others that they should think the same way they do, they have every right to disagree.

Blessed Be,

The List Managers: Dan (dan@spiritpathways.com), and Kyril (oakwind@chorus.net)



That being said, we repeat: you are probably going to meet many of these list members, face to face, sometime, somewhere. If you behave on this list the same way you would at your neighbor's kitchen table, you'll be just fine.

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